Meet a Quantum Energy Healer & The Forgiveness Expert
About Nicole Harvick
Nicole Harvick, acclaimed author, speaker & Quantum Energy Healer, is The Forgiveness Expert. A best-selling author in ‘The Change’, she blends Ho’oponopono, Reiki & Cellular Memory Retrieval to help others heal and transform.
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Introduction
Good, beautiful day, beautiful, beautiful souls! This is Charla Anderson, host of the Charla Anderson Show~Collector & Connector of Fascinating People (& EVERYONE is Fascinating!), especially you. cannot wait to introduce you to my guest today, Nicole Harvick. She’s a quantum energy healer and a forgiveness expert can’t wait to hear about that. …BUT FIRST…
Let’s take a 22 second mini vacation. Let’s breathe in some calm hold for 4 seconds and then breathe out some gratitude. Let’s go. Here we go. Breathe in calm.
Hold, relax, release. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
There we go. That’s the way I start all my presentations, and that is, you know, kind of gets us settled and grounded. We probably should do it multiple times a day just to get some grounding. I cannot wait. Okay. So Nicole Harvick, and she is an author in the Change Book Series with Les Brown, Jim Lutes and Jim Britt like I am.
And that’s where we met in that amazing mastermind that they provide with that whole group. Nicole. Thank you so much for joining me today. I want to know, who are you in this world? And we’re going to talk about all kinds of stuff. But this forgiveness, healing their energy work, quantum energy work. What does all that mean? Let’s talk about who you are in this world.
You know, and it’s so funny that you say, who are you? Because just when I think I have a description, something will change in my life. And I look at it. And I’m like, Okay, how do I add this in now? How do I incorporate this? So I will have to say that my passion is forgiveness because I went through a really really bad divorce. And that’s what really started me on this healing journey, because I was trying to heal myself. So I went and got, you know, a certificate after certificate after certificate.
I was utilizing, you know, Reiki on myself, cellular memory on myself, just all kinds of things, and I just noticed that, regardless of what I was doing, I was losing my hair, and I was scratching my skin until it would bleed, and I thought, You know what is going on here. And so what I discovered is, I was not including forgiveness in this practice at all. You know that that was just not something that had ever dawned on me.
I was thinking something more physical where, you know, forgiveness is not really something tangible. It’s something that’s in your heart. And once I started reading about it, I learned all about Ho’oponopono, an ancient Hawaiian forgiveness practice that I started utilizing every day.
And all of a sudden I just started feeling anger melt away, resentment melt away, just all of those negative feelings that I had been holding inside of my body which were making me sick. I was releasing them. I was just releasing them. Just something daily would come out. and that’s when it dawned on me. I wasn’t forgiving my ex per se.
You know I wasn’t like giving. It wasn’t like he still did that I was forgiving myself. I was forgiving what he did, so I could get those emotions out of my body, and I had to forgive myself for a lot of things as well, because I didn’t use my voice when I was married. and I had to forgive myself for not speaking my truth. So that was one of the things that really was keeping me stuck. And so I just started forgiving myself.
What I did is I forgave myself because I didn’t know what to do at that time. and since then you can look back on something and see your mistakes, but when you’re mired in the middle of it. You don’t often know that if I don’t speak up for me, no one does.
That’s amazing. Yeah, truly. I just remember when I left I finally it dawned on me as well. I just my terms. I just want to be heard, you know I came up with that as I want to be heard for what I’m saying, as well as what I’m not able to say, I want. I want that kind of a relationship that you know.
Maybe ask a few more questions. Is that really what’s going on, or is that ha! You know what else is going on, or whatever? If you’re gonna have a conversation in a relationship? I wanted to be heard, and I was not a i i’m you know. I’m a pleaser. I’m a server. I want to help. I want everybody to be happy, and all those things. I was a flight attendant for 34 years, but I had bitterness.
But I was like this, my heart I had a bitter root in there, and one day and it’s I call, you know one of my books is called “Split second transformation. Change your words, change your life. 31 daily practices.” But I had a split second moment of transformation from bitterness to joy. And and
It’s permanent. I didn’t know at the time it was permanent. It was not constant, you know, but for the most part, it’s been constant and permanent, and when you can, a transformation is permanent when it really.
Yes.
Takes. Yes, and so forgiveness is a huge key.
It is, and you said something so important that I want to go back to is the things that were left unsaid. you know. That’s what was eating me alive is well, I should have said this. I should have done. That I should have should have should have. Well, you can’t go back, you know you can’t go back. And so that’s really what I forgave myself for was not speaking up in that moment of that.
And I might have for decades of like the one question. The first thing, I want to ask when I get to heaven, right is like, why are relationships so hard? Why can’t they just be? You know we’ve got to deal with all the rest of the stuff? Why can’t. We have easy relationships? Because and and they are not. And it takes work, and it takes effort. And and so you’ve you’ve come up with a couple of things.
You first of all you came. You know, you started working through the quantum energy healing. And you know, I know a lot of about that. The reiki and the the Ho’oponopono by the way is another tremendous thing, and and we probably will need to spell that and spell some of this stuff, because most people listen on podcasts rather than the live show. But I wrote it, I wrote what I called a forgiveness. Release in my tiny book called Candy Bar Hugs. It doesn’t take much to make a difference.
And I wrote it from Ho’oponopono. But I was writing it kind of to my children, and I didn’t want to ask anything. So Ho’oponopono is. I love you. I’m sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you.
Yes, yes, and you know I can remember when I first learned about it, and I had spent just years, you know, going to counselors, and just book after book after book. And my 1st thought when I heard about this and read about this is, well, that’s free that can’t work, you know. That was, that was my mentality, and I have spirit guides that I get downloads through.
And they said, just try it almost like a parent talking to a kid, you know. Don’t judge something before you’ve tried it. So I did it. You know the 2 in between times that I love are right as we get up, because we’re kind of in that where our subconscious will catch things and embed it so right as I woke up, and right before I fell asleep I would say those words over and over just to me. and you know I love you. I’m sorry. Please forgive me and thank you, and you know it wasn’t like overnight. It was a few days, a few weeks, but it’s almost as if something that weight, you know. You have that weight of anger that ache, ache of despair, whatever it is. And all of a sudden, instead of waking up like another day, it was like another day.
So awesome. Yeah.
Was a big difference for me. And that’s when I realized. with all the modalities I had learned and been practicing, that what you need to start your healing with is forgiveness, particularly with yourself. We’re so hard on ourselves as women.
A totally, and you know so I believe you’re the other thing. I believe that goes hand in hand is gratitude, I mean we, starting with gratitude and starting with forgiveness. And I had years ago written, design this little oh, meme, or you know, graphic, that is kind of like you know, love, love God, love yourself, love others, but it starts with gratitude and and requires forgiveness, is the way I think. I said it.
Oh, okay. Okay.
Yeah, so, but either way it they’re both go hand in hand, you know. You don’t have to.
Important, very important. And you know that was fun. Part as well is when you do release a lot of those burdens that you’ve been keeping inside. You realize that just waking up in the morning you wake up with gratitude that you’re waking up. You know, and I remember telling someone that I got to a point where I thought, I wish everybody could feel this way when they wake up.
It would be a whole different world. And it’s just you look around and you’re like, my gosh, I have this house. I have. My girls are healthy, you can always find something to be grateful for.
I got toenails, I mean it.
Yes, it has to.
I mean, sometimes when your people are just really in the dark place, you know, just finding something to go. You know I, you know, drop my pencil in it, and I it didn’t go all the way the floor. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I didn’t have to bend over. I mean, it doesn’t have to. It can start with just 3 simple things.
And you know, fingernails and toenails. Why not? You know. I mean, we like them. We just don’t think of them very much, and thank be thankful for them. So yeah, I would. I’m driving, just going. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. And or wake up in the middle of the night. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you, because I’ve ingrained gratitude in my day.
Who am I right? I mean, it’s just who I am, and when I don’t, there’s there’s I mean no, it’s not 100% of the time but has become. I’m content. you know, in most things, just because I don’t harbor anger and forget I forgive. And I don’t, and I carry the gratitude, and I do believe they’re very close and…
And that changes your life so dramatically.
And you said you have a quote. You said, you know it doesn’t mean you’re weak necessarily to. When you forgive. It’s not like it. If you’re the strong one, then, I mean, it’s exactly the attribute of the strong. I believe it’s how you said it.
Yeah, it’s by Gandhi. Actually, you know, forgiveness is not an attribute of the weak. Forgiveness is the attribute for the strong, because it takes a lot to realize that. You know you’ve cast the burden upon yourself when you don’t choose forgiveness, and so, when you can forgive. you know you’ve released what is keeping you in chains.
Yeah, they don’t. They may or may not have any clue that there’s anything wrong there, you know they’ve moved on. What is it, though? You’re drinking the poison, hoping that they will die. Is that what is that you’re holding on to something and hoping that they’ve got? You’ve got vindictiveness and revenge and all this kind of stuff, but you’re the only one it’s focused on you.
Exactly, exactly. And I tell people I you know I forgiveness is very, very selfish, actually, because it is only for you and and I. You know people like well, I’m not going to forgive this or that. They did this or that, and I said, if they did that to you, they really don’t care about you. You’re probably not going to get an apology. You’re not. You’re not going to get any kind of feeling that things are okay because they simply don’t care.
And that is so true if they and so this my little forgiveness thing that I wrote for in the it’s a dedication to my kids. It’s like I did what I did. I didn’t do what I didn’t do. I did all that I knew to do with what I knew at the time, just like you did and are doing in your life right now. I love you, and it doesn’t sound anything like Ho’oponopono.
But that’s where I was inspired from to write that because we’re all just getting doing all we know to do any given moment. We’re only doing all we know to do with where we are in that moment, and my favorite book that I talk probably more about than anything is the 4 agreements, and I love that book that changed anything.
It would change my life, not taking anything personally and not making assumptions. Can you imagine if everybody walked around going, you know? Well and in my split second transformation books like, isn’t that interesting?
What if we had conversation and instead of everybody being offended by everything. Where did you come up to that conclusion? What if we had a conversation around? Oh, that’s interesting! How did you come to that conclusion?
And or tell me more. It’s it’s we’ve lost. It seems so many of us have lost that agree to disagree and to have a communication around things.
Yeah, it’s really interesting. And it was so freeing to me when I, you said, don’t take nothing personally. And the minute I thought that was never about me that was about him and his perception or judgment of what I did. But it wasn’t about me. That was his problem, not mine. And so that is very freeing in terms of release.
We are not taught that at all.
At all.
We shouldn’t. Here we are. We are teachers here. We share these things that get the word out. Get that freedom. I mean, you’re a coach. You’re teaching people. You just did a retreat this weekend, and you’re teaching and healing people from these bondages. They’re the chains that bind.
Oh, and it’s so important. And one of the things that we were doing this past weekend. It was a women’s retreat, but we were learning to tap into our higher selves, our higher consciousness where all knowledge is stored. And you know, when you start understanding your power, a lot of times we go through life.
And you know, we think our job is our power. Or, you know, being a mom is our power. Of course, that was my superpower for a while, but when we really realize we have intrinsic power. We have the power to heal ourselves. You know we have. We have so much power, and we’ve lost that somewhere in the shuffle.
So we’re trying to bring that back. And, boy, we had some epiphanies this weekend. We had tears this weekend we had. So there’s so many emotions. I tell people you don’t know what to expect, because you don’t know what’s going to hit you in the heart. you know, so it’s a safe place for women to when they have that. Oh, my gosh! I never knew, or you know, that moment of just like boom. It hits them.
We’ve all been there. We’ve all been there, you know. I’ve done tons of work, but don’t think I haven’t dropped to my knees at some point and cried, or, you know sobbed because I have so, and you know people are like well, they cried. You didn’t seem to have any emotion, I said, oh, I have tons of emotion. What you don’t understand is I’m watching this moment of the perspective of this is what I had to go through to get to the other side. So my heart is full. You know, when someone has this reaction, because I know that has just become a life changing event for them.
Beautiful. And I wish everyone could have that perspective, you know. I wish everyone had a moment, and could absolutely step into their powerful beyond measure. Marianne Williamson, you know, said you have no idea how powerful you are, and when you realize literally that the quantum thing you’re talking about Joe Dispenza and Graham Brayden and Bruce Lipton. And these guys, you know, literally determining that we quantum. It means we’re all connected.
All right.
From the beginning.
I know.
Time to the infinite time. All knowledge is available to us all, all the wisdom of the ages.
Absolutely.
Still. And no, that’s the deal. That’s why to that 22 second little breathing thing. Just most of us don’t ever turn our devices off long enough to listen to our own heart, our own spirit, our own intellect, and our own instincts.
If we would only do what our gut tells us to do, we would be right. 99.9% of the time.
Yeah. And what I’m teaching now is the heart space.
I love the heart space.
Is our true center as well, and because we are rising up in frequency and transitioning from a 3rd dimensional frequency to a 5th. That’s where you need to go, that your gut and your heart are going to give you the correct answers, you know, and when you surrender to higher power. And like you, said, tap in with that mind, not the brain. Two different things, but your mind. There, like everything, is out there, past, present, and future is there for you to grasp.
Brilliant be, and nobody knows it. I mean.
I know it.
Yeah, yeah, I know it. And I’ve known it. I’ve known a lot of it instinctually a lot longer than most people would think more than it’s been popular, you know, because it is getting out. People are looking at how? How? Our, my, our heart is really the brain. You know our heart. This is a brain in the heart.
Connection, yeah, yeah.
Heartmath, and all those amazing studies and openness of the universe, and we have it inside of us.
Exactly.
God lives in us, I come from a faith background. And I know that God and the Holy Spirit are in me. God says they’re in you. But religion has said, it’s outside of you, and this is where I think the biggest disconnect has come. I think so as well. Religion, which the definition is return to bondage. I love my faith, I love my God, I love my Jesus,
I love all of that. But the religion has brought has kept God in a box, and they, you know they can’t, they, whoever they is, out there that wants to keep us in control, they cannot control. If you have all knowledge and all information, and you have freedom, and you’re happy, and you know they cannot keep you in that little box.
And that’s very disturbing to them. Very disturbing, you know. And I have people because I meditate. Obviously I need my quiet time. I’m a yoga fanatic. And oh, you know demons are going to get in there. It’s like, no, no, they’re they’re not. I protect myself, and they’re not coming after you. When you go inside they can’t get in there.
Unless you let them. Yeah, unless you let him. you know. So I mean, I believe, Jesus said, I can do all things. In John 1412. You can do all things that he did. He says that I did, and even more, that means we can heal the sick. We can raise the dead. We can change the weather, you know, and you know religion doesn’t teach that.
But for some reason I’ve come into that knowledge or that information and feel it. It’s spectacular when you can realize that we have it all inside of us.
It’s amazing.
Blasphemy thing, you know. Well, you know, Jesus said, we can do what He did, and even more so. I’m claiming that I’m claiming that promise and that gift.
I’m right with you. With that that you know, to have a Christ. Consciousness allows you to understand your power, that is, is our birthright.
Exactly. Oh, man!
So to me, it’s like this is, I don’t think it’s. I know we’re in a 26,000 year cycle with upgrades in the planet, splitting and things being revealed. And I mean, I just sit here, and I’m very grateful that I’m living in a time where I have this knowledge. and I want to share it. And I want, and other, not just women either. I want everyone to understand their power.
We’ve just been sold down the pipe, you know. We just sold the wrong message and anything to keep us divided and disorganized, and in chaos and in fear. And I am, is bold faith, no fear. And when I can say that and mean it. You know it. It’s it’s truth, and I don’t have to defend it. I get to just be it.
Been the worst feeling. We don’t have to strive. Just be. And I got that word multiple times in 2013. And I’m like, what does that mean? You know you mean I just get to sit on the couch, you know.
Exactly exactly. And then, you know, that’s fine for a while. But you’re like, Well, I guess I do need to take action. So the universe sees that and sends me more. So I get up from the couch every once in a while.
Yeah, I know. And I gave up watching television in 7th and 8th grade. I’m 71 years old, and you know, in 7th grade, I got so addicted to soap operas that I didn’t think I could go into 8th grade literally, I just and then, the next summer, when Jesse and Dr. Hardy were, you know, still talking.
You know.
Thank you.
I had 3 dark shadows. I don’t remember the 3rd one, but I was like. I will never be. I’ll be addicted to television. What a gift!
You know I can’t even hardly turn it on either. It is, I mean, you know. Talk about freeing up time, giving you your time back, you know, and I remember, you know, going to work, getting home, eating and then popping that TV on till 10 o’clock, when I went to bed, you know. Must see TV was Thursdays, and it’s like, Oh, my gosh! And I. Sometimes I’ll sit in front of the TV with lunch and watch a rerun or something. I don’t watch the news at all.
Never never never.
No. Yeah. Talk about depressing, right?
Its fear, and if they can keep us in chaos, and fear and divisiveness us against them, men against women.
Whole plan.
All is a plan to keep us divided, and we cannot step into that power.
If our power.
And being the best we can be, and making a huge impact in the world. If we’re upset with what you know, what they what the news just said, and.
Yeah, and I won’t even. And you know, and I want, I know so many people that still have that TV on all the time.
I just want it for the noise in the background. I’m like I will go for days without. I’ll drive. I’ll drive 8 h in a day and not turn on anything. I mean, I’d rather, you know, I want to just want to be still and know. And so I’m I know I’m unusual in that aspect, but it’s the truth.
But you know, I tell people that sitting in your own silence is a superpower now, and how are you.
You all just stuck to this little machine.
Exactly. And I ask people you know They like. They asked me, How do you get messages? And I said, It’s downloaded through me, but I have to be quiet to hear it. so I surrender, and I sit in my silence, and I love it, and that’s if I have questions I ask, and if there are answers, I hear. But you can’t have it. If there’s chatter, you know, and I know we get monkeys.
Mind, you know it just chatters and chatters. But for me, that’s where the meditation comes in and my breathing. If you can control your breathing, you can control anything.
That’s that. And if you can take a breath you have been provided for. This is another message. I say, you know, if you know there is no lack in the world. It’s a distribution issue. But if you can take a breath in this moment. then you are alive, you can you have an opportunity then to?
If you don’t like where you are? If you’re in the gutter, then you can take the next breath and take a different make a different choice, do something different. But if you take, if you can take a breath, you have been provided for up until this moment in time.
Absolutely.
So you’re pushing up daisies right? I have a mentor that said, keep breathing free, and every day I get a message that says, keep breathing free oxygen. And I’m like, Yeah, especially if you’re in Texas, you know.
Yeah, exactly. Yeah. You guys have a lot of oxygen there.
Absolutely.
Yeah, but no, that’s very true. I you know I know some people that cannot be by themselves. Cannot they have to have something all the time, and I think conditioning. Of course
I unconditioned, and I know I will never go back to that person who had to, you know, have the music on, or have the TV on, or be on the phone. It’s like, no, I’m out, I want. And even when I’m sometimes working. If I get a little flustered or something’s not quite working right, I’ll just step away for 5 min.
And I you know, I always tell. Yeah. Zen, go go into my zone, and I say there is an answer to every question, and that for every problem there’s a solution. So let it come to me, you know, and.
I also say everything is always working out for me, and when it and when it isn’t, because it doesn’t always feel like it is. if you continue with the bold faith and the going with knowing that there is a good answer. you’re going to punch through it and not have deal. It’s so much easier to deal with problems out of piece. Think men upset.
Oh!
No matter where you are, no matter. It could be a horrific diagnosis or horrific accident, or whatever. If you can go okay, this is all where I am is all I have. I’ve got to deal with this. You can deal with it better with calm and upset, upset, draws, upset.
Well and calm brings clarity. If you give it a moment, you know, just sit there instead of that frenzy that you think you need to be in, you know you can. You can take more logical steps toward what you need to to work towards.
A lot of times I’ve said. I say this a lot, but you know, if somebody the easiest example somebody cuts you off in traffic. Right, I’m like. May you be blessed, Matt Khan! May you be blessed! A master is one who blesses. May you be blessed! And and then I go, and maybe they need to go to the bathroom more than I do, or whatever you know. So you know you can add some humor to your story.
Exactly. And you know, that’s how I learned not to make up stories, because we don’t know.
Assumptions. Right? Yeah, you don’t.
Always. You have no idea. Is that person rushing home to a kid? Is there an emergency? You know? I know some people drive terrible. But you know, when I drive with my dad, he’s always making I’m like. Don’t make up stories. Don’t make up stories. Well.
And they’re not doing it to the vast majority are not doing it to you, which is where you take things personally, and you make, assuming that well, they did. They’re cutting me off, because, you know, it goes back to the 4 agreements they are generally doing for them, or doing what whatever they need to do, and has nothing to do with you.
Absolutely so. Why get mad? And in a rage for someone that doesn’t even know you’re driving by them? They have no idea. And so I you know to me it’s like, Okay, well, I’m fine. I’m going to keep going about my day wherever they need to go. Let them go. I’m stepping back and taking that breath and releasing it.
May you be blessed, and when you consent, so unconditional love, I have a you might like this. I have it. It’s in this tiny book again, unconditional love, unconditional forgiveness, not unconditional boundaries. So there’s there’s that right, we don’t we? We don’t. We don’t need to let people in intrude into our space in a negative way. But unconditional love is my bottom line message, and it and the harder people are to love the more they need. It is the other caveat to that right.
You’re not kidding about that, and you know I will be honest, you know, with my ex. I do send him unconditional love, and the reason is, is, he doesn’t love himself.
There’s the key. People don’t love themselves enough to love other people.
Absolutely, and I also know that whatever I send back I receive, and I don’t want to receive hate, or negativity, or nastiness, or greed or any of those things, so I only send out what I want back. And you know, does he receive it? I don’t know, but I know I’m going to keep sending, because that is a person that that you know does not love himself.
And I mean, I say, this an awful lot, and bullies, you know. Bullies are victims, too. Right? They don’t love themselves enough to love other people in a positive way at all. They don’t know how. And they’re there. They’re reflecting that negative out on their others. Yeah,
I love that perhaps we can teach people that are bullied not to be victims right. I would like to see it shift. And just maybe they have learned to have, not not giving up a boundary, but receiving that maybe maybe they don’t love themselves enough. Maybe they’re yeah, exactly, you know. I don’t know what’s going on at their house, you know.
Going to say we can’t judge because we don’t know. And that’s 1 of the worst things is, people are all a lot. And then, when I talk about this, I’m talking about more of a 3rd dimensional frequency, that density of, you know, not as we’re rising up and understanding. Some people are not going to have that opportunity. We’re at a point now where my guides told me. If someone needs you, they will find you. But some people are actually here, and that 3rd dimensional frequency to learn those lessons.
So we just let them be. And then, maybe, you know, if you believe in reincarnation or coming back, or just simply having that lesson here in earthly time that might change them for the better. So who am I to change them, you know.
Truly well. What if you know there a lot of people that are unfamiliar with the quantum energy, the Reiki, the Ho’oponopono, the healing, the past life information. And I’m an information gatherer. I’ve been searching, you know. I’ve been attracting so much information, and I had to get to go us. That’s interesting. Maybe that generate that resonates with me, or it doesn’t, whatever.
But can you give some? Can you do something here just to give an example of what that looks like. or is that, or is it more private.
No, it’s not private at all, but I can certainly describe it, because one of the things when you have trauma in your body and trauma can come from childhood being bullied, it can come from a parent that is not, you know. even just words, and it can also be ancestral. So this can come from grandparents. There’s lineage that can travel down when you’re born, that you might not even know why you do those certain things. But guess what? Because of cellular memory. And you know, I’m part of my mom, my dad, my kids are part of me and their father and my dad and my mom and my grandparents.
There’s some behavior that they might not even know why they do this, and there also can be trauma that’s stuck inside the body. And I always tell people you can talk about trauma all you want, but you have to physically release that. And when I talk about working in quantum, that’s working in the past, present, and future. So you know, going back to the past to find it right now to get rid of it in the future. Who do you want to become? Who do you see yourself as and how do we do? That is, I either use hypnosis or I’m going to use meditation. You get in a relaxed state of mind. and I start taking you backwards.
I start taking you, you know. Where do you feel? Where do you feel the pressure? Where do you feel that trauma? Because you can feel it? You know mine was always in my gut or my left hip. I always felt it there. Then we identify it. What is it? And if they don’t know right off hand, I’m going to have them go back in time. Excuse me, go back in time and find it, and it is always there. It is always there unless you physically release it. It is still in there, but you buried it so deeply in your subconscious. We have to dig a little bit to find that. And what I’m seeing now, because we, as humans in the 3rd dimension they have a carbon based body, which is a very dense body, and I noticed that when before I had,
I had a DNA upgrade and rose up in my frequency, but it’s I noticed back then I could bury. I could bury things really deep, and I didn’t want them to come out because they were so painful. But with this crystalline body it’s so much lighter. Things will come up immediately if something’s bothering me, and I know how to release it. I know how to get rid of it right away, and I’m seeing that with a lot of people all of a sudden they’re like, I don’t know where this came from, but I have this memory of this.
Well, it’s because it’s rising because they need to release it. So it’s becoming easier to locate and release where this is. And you know, once they release that you’re releasing that space of anger or animosity or hate, whatever it is, that negative emotion that’s very thick. You get to replace it.
and you’re going to replace it with happiness or joy. What you know. Whatever you want to replace it with, you get to fill it up with something very, very positive. And people notice a change right away. you know. Sometimes there’s a lot of tears to get rid of, because it’s emotional you know. There’s tears.
Child, that hurt child. That’s that was you. You know that it is. You survived it, and.
And
And did, and then forgot that you survived it, and or that even sometimes it happens so those traumas do hurt.
And that’s why we bury them we don’t want. We don’t want that hurt popping up, as we continue our journey to, you know, to, to adolescent, to teen, to adult, to parent. We try to block it and keep it pushed down. But I’m finding these things are coming up so often now. And it’s at a point in time, like, I talk about this new world we’re having that we don’t need to carry anymore. We don’t need to suffer: with that pain of carrying that trauma. Let’s get rid of it, and let’s move on.
Awesome.
So let do you find people and and I that are very resistant to hypnotherapy sort of, so to speak. I believe I’m 1. i believe that, you know. I spent 9 h this girl trying to go through, and I was like, or maybe maybe I had cleared most of my stuff. anyway, but.
And a lot of people are working on themselves now they know how to do it. But I’ll give you an example for this weekend. I’ve been working with a client for for months now, and I always tell her you know we’ll do the meditation we could do. She goes. No, I’m not doing hypnosis. I’m not doing hypnosis. and she was very scared of it. But stage hypnosis is very different, very different. And so what we did is, we did a meditation on a client. This weekend, you know, found some places where things were stuck and released it. and what I she had come.
Can I interrupt and ask this question? Are you and she in meditation at the same time, or.
No, I got. I guide the meditation.
Okay.
Now, because I’m intuitive. I can usually find, see, and help her release the problem because I feel it with her. I’ll get an age, I’ll get what’s going on. Is it a parent? Is it a bully, you know, so I do have the ability to tap in to that frequency and energy. So I do go into their energy a little bit. I’m shielded because I don’t want anyone’s energy but my own, but I do have the ability to see into that field.
And what we helped her that understand is when you’re doing meditation, and I’m telling you to breathe or release or relax. Go deeper. Those are their commands. She doesn’t have to do it, but she’s relaxed. She trusts me, and that’s a no like and trust thing, you know, and I get that. But when it was over we brought up the fact that hypnosis is very much the same. You’re in a relaxed state. You’re getting commands, if you want to call them that, you know it sounds kind of harsh, but it’s the same thing, you know. What do you see? How do you feel. Describe that? For what reason?
So when she and and then we talked about highway hypnosis. do you realize that when you’re driving you’re in a hypnotic state. When you’re watching TV, you’re in a hypnotic state when you’re talking to someone on the phone many times you’re in a hypnotic state. So whether you’re whether you like it or not, and whether you’re afraid of it or not. So often during our day we’re in a hypnotic state.
So you can just exciting it.
All that. Yeah, when she understood what I how I how I showed it to her, how I talked to her about it, and I she she’s like, Wow. So this whole time I was kind of doing hypnosis. And you know, I’m like, well, in a sense, yes. it’s because meditation and hypnosis are similar. It’s relaxation, it’s understanding, you know. but like I said, she knows, likes, and trusts me. I’ve known her for so many years, and she’s like, well, that’s not so bad. It’s like, no, it’s not. And we found a lot of stuff going on that we were able to release.
That’s amazing. So we know both know Jim Lutes. His profession is hypnotic hypnosis and professionally and stage, the big audience. right?
Which I.
He’s good.
They never pick me because I’m not. I don’t. I’m not.
I’m not.
Open to it. Yeah.
I’m not a good session.
But how do they know who is? You know?
Yeah, I I don’t know but they do. And I’ve never been picked in an audience, either because I do not relinquish my control or my energy to anyone ever.
For you. And so this you talked about. You’re shielding yourself. And so I you know Icome from. I say, Psalms 91 Psalm 91 is every protection promise of God in one chapter. So whether you’re religious or not, if you want protection, I claim the psalm 91 shield or protection
around me, and the 10,000 angels around me. You know, all the time, especially driving, or not too long ago, we I think it was last week we had tornadoes coming, and I just like Psalm 91. Thank you for your shoulder protection. And and it’s it’s about gratitude. It’s not about begging. See, I think we’ve been taught wrong, taught wrong about how to ask. We don’t beg, please, please.
Right? Thank you. That is already on its way right? Thank you that I’m protected. Thank you and gratitude. That’s why I guess I continue to mention gratitude. It goes. You’ve got to forgive and gratitude when you ask for something a protection. Then. you know. Thank you that it’s already given, and relax release and let it go. Michael Singer, you know we’ve got. We’ve got everything, and when we continue to step into that bold faith, no fear, which is who I say I am, and have for years, and I get robbed at gunpoint and had no fear. You know
every word matters. This is also my my book. You know. Every word matters split. Second transformation. Change your words, change your life, every word matters 31 daily practices in this little book. and and we we negate so many of our our prayers, for instance, we just, you know. Yeah, but I can’t afford it. Yeah. But you know.
Exactly. And that’s what I tell people, too, when when I’m helping you heal, because I use some light weaving and light language, which is, is color, coded healing that goes directly into your body, I said. But if you go home and say to yourself, Well, that’s never going to work well guess what as within, so without, you’ve just negated your whole healing. you go home, and in thanks and pray in gratitude.
Thank you that I’m healed. Thank you that I’m already I mean, I don’t believe in getting sick. This is another. I say this a lot, but I have 0 orange bottles. I don’t believe in getting sick. I don’t, either. It’s it’s not. It’s not arrogance. It’s the authority that I can do all things, you know. And and and so it’s people think I’m cocky or arrogant about that. Oh, I don’t watch TV. Oh, I don’t. You know I don’t ever get sick. Well, it’s true. And and why? Why? Why? Just because you can’t understand. It doesn’t mean it’s not true.
And you know I haven’t been. I remember the last time I got sick was January of 2021 I had. I got Covid a very mild case, and I knew because I couldn’t smell, and because I was very tired. But about a month ago I got sick again, and it was because I got angry at something that I didn’t release right away. It lingered in me for about 3 days, and I was angry, and guess what I got sick. That darkness made me sick, so you know, and I know better. I know better. But it was. It was egregious to me, and.
But it gave you. It gave you a huge reminder. Right? Absolutely. So we’re we’re all human. We’re trying to get through this like as best as and we can. And so yeah, it doesn’t mean we don’t have the emotions. But what I love about what you just said. You know I did you. You harbored
bitterness or anger.
3 days.
So, but and when you, when you even I did I think it was probably about this end of the year, that same year when I kind of got something I just I couldn’t breathe deep, and and it was painful to breathe, and I’m like, but regardless if something does come up. I don’t remember releasing anything. I don’t remember having the tie to an emotion that it probably was, but I used to. I still get over it much faster than most people would, because I.
Good.
I rebuke it right?
Yeah, I don’t have time.
Who has who wants to, you know.
To heal. I can’t be sick, but you know it was. It was just such a I knew this. I knew this, but it was such a lesson like. Look, you did this to yourself, sister, you know.
Reminder.
Absolutely. Yeah.
Bing, bing.
Yeah. Yeah. So shame on me.
But but it’s also I, as I say it this way. Sometimes. Beast he makes you lie down.
Yes.
Sometimes you need the rest, and perhaps the reminders come from that. So.
Yeah.
Just a thought.
Absolutely. I love that.
So what is so last words here? It always goes so fast. And I I just I just love. This is my favorite hour of the whole week, because I get to
pick brains and and just have fun and conversation that I don’t typically have on a daily basis. So thank you for that. And.
You’re welcome.
Where do you? Let’s let’s spell your name and your how people find you. Nicole Harvick.
And I.
N I C O L E. It’s spelled different different places. H A R V I C K. NicoleHarvick.com/
is basically where people can find you.
Yeah, that is my website. And I’m all over social media and everything’s in my name. I just, I thought, you know, I’m good. Even my email, NicoleHarvick@Gmail.com, that I’m just making it simple.
Right it’s and it’s I call. It’s brilliant branding, actually, my.
Exactly.
Carla anderson.com. I mean, it just is same. Keep it. And and for those of us that were lucky enough to get our website when it was available. Yeah, so that I like that, it makes it simple. We all we have all kinds of other things. So quantum energy, healer forgiveness.
Forgiveness. What is it? The forgiveness.
What’s the word I want looking for? Oh, I’m gonna look at it! I’ve got it The forgiveness expert. I knew it was getting.
Yeah.
Saying energy, but I knew it was an E.
Yeah, no, it’s and and I just, I thought, you know, I’ve learned so much. I’ve read so much. I’ve studied so much, and it’s just. It’s such such a concept, such a concept.
And the power of forgiveness is what you talk about, and it’s huge. And I just told you that my niece wrote a book called the power of Forgiveness, and has any Forgiveness Academy? Because because she had been kidnapped when she was 7 years old by her dad. Her story is, she went self-destruct right at a late teenager. and took quite a few years to come out of that. But it was forgiveness that did so.
Yeah.
You know.
You know, and I even wrote a chapter in a book years ago, called The Alchemy of Forgiveness. And what what forgiveness does is is, you know, alchemy was turning steel into gold, and what forgiveness does is turns hate into love. It turns anger into happiness. So when you use it as alchemy. You’re changing all your emotions with forgiveness.
Incredible. I mean the quantum I it’s who would have thought I mean, you know, we’ve got the jet since we’re something in the future. But you know we’re there.
From there, I know, and we’re you and I, among many other people.understand the importance of this time in history. Yeah.
I’m so grateful to be chosen to be alive in this moment.
Yeah.
As we are ascending, or or the vibration of the earth. This is. you know, you do this human resonance. And back, 20 years ago, when it was like 7 or 8, or whatever. Now it’s shooting.
Charts.
The IA lot of people don’t know what that is, but the human residence is the vibration of the earth. Now.
Yeah.
I you know, an hour, still an hour, but it goes so much faster when the vibration of the earth, so that.
Thanks.
It looks like time is going faster.
Yeah, absolutely. And you know, it’s it’s as if you know a week is a day. Now it’s crazy.
Yeah, so an hour is a minute. I mean it. Just you blink. And how did I get to be 71 years old? How did my baby Grandbaby get to be over 3 already? You know.
I know it’s boom! Boom!
So so fast and often. You know, this is just another example of how much power that we actually have. Thank you for redeeming my time. I’m driving, and I’m gonna be late. Thank you for redeeming my time. And I magically end up on time, you know, when I shouldn’t have been, you know. So you can.You can manipulate time. Time is just man made and the universe will help you. Nobody. You know people. There’s there’s a lot of people that have no concept of all of that, and the power and the beauty that we have to be able to.
And the fun. I’ve jumped timelines, you know I have been driving, and I’ll look over and it. You know, I was in a like around hospitals. And all this, the next thing I know I’m in I’m in a neighborhood I’ve never seen in my life. So if you think you know, there’s there is.
The dimensions. Time is like this, not like this, and that’s I do the same thing sometimes. You’re like,
For me.
It’s just.
I love it, I’m like, oh, let’s have another experience. Let’s do that.
You’re in South Carolina now. Instead, I am Yeah. You were.
I am.
And you’re not coast to coast.
Arizona, now South Carolina, probably soon to be Tennessee.
Oh, my sister and son live in Tennessee.
Oh, nice. Yeah. So we’ll see.
Well, I have so enjoyed having our conversation. I do. I’ll just let’s just end with this. The Jim Britt, Jim Lutes, the Change book series. You don’t find this book on Amazon. This is special, and either one of us, if you would like to have the credibility factor. Anybody listening of being one of the 20 authors in one of these books we’re looking for book number 23, or 24. Now.
Oh!
And it’s it’s amazing. And it’s it. The value is
in the Facebook Mastermind group. We have the mastermind call. Oh.
And it’s a you know. Jim calls it a branding machine on steroids to be on the cover, you know, and and like, you know I do. I interviewed the authors. We have a podcast. You know, we have so many opportunities with Jim Lutes to train or be coached. And you can’t. You can’t just go out and get the wisdom of those 2 men, and we get it once a month.
They’re brilliant, and they’re.
Really.
Masterful. And they’re generous. They’re so generous with their knowledge and help, and so that the value is not just the book. The value is the community. So and that, yeah. And I wouldn’t know you if it weren’t for that. So.
Well, it.
And
Lady that I worked with this weekend I met from the change book. So there’s collaboration.
Amazing.
Yeah, I want to. I I was thinking this morning, I need to do a little bit more of the you know.
connecting my own community back to things. So that’s been a great thing. So NicoleHarvick.Com and Nicole Harvick is the master forgiveness experts and quantum healer, and I’m so grateful that you joined me today. We will. We will be in touch and can’t. And the way I end every show is, and
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About Nicole Harvick
Nicole Harvick is a renowned quantum energy healer and forgiveness expert who has dedicated herself to helping others on their healing journeys. With over 10 years of personal healing experience, Nicole has developed a deep understanding of the power of forgiveness and the immense impact it has on our lives.
Nicole is well-versed in a variety of modalities, including being a Reiki master, sound therapy practitioner, and expert in cellular memory retrieval meditation and hypnosis. Through these powerful tools, she guides individuals in locating and releasing stuck trauma, whether it originates from childhood experiences or ancestral patterns.
As an empath, Nicole taps into her clairaudience abilities to intuitively identify and assist in the release of emotional burdens. Utilizing the profound practice of Ho’oponopono, an ancient Hawaiian forgiveness technique, she supports individuals in their journey towards forgiveness and healing.
Aside from her remarkable healing abilities, Nicole is also an accomplished author and speaker, sharing her wisdom and knowledge on forgiveness and healing. She emphasizes the importance of raising one’s vibration and stepping into their 5th-dimensional existence, emphasizing that forgiveness and healing are essential components of this transformative process.
With Nicole’s guidance, individuals are empowered to release the past, let go of emotional baggage, and embrace a more vibrant and fulfilling life. Her compassionate nature and expert healing skills have touched the lives of many, making her an invaluable asset to the field of energy healing and forgiveness.
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