The “White Coat” of Authority Marketing Syndrome
I recently shared my thoughts on the importance of natural remedies, the impact of media and big pharma, and the power of love and kindness in society. With my background in law enforcement and the food industry, I’ve seen firsthand the need for healthier, more natural choices. I’m also involved with Zurvita, a health supplement company, because I believe in promoting healthy eating and strong leadership for a better future.
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Introduction
Good, beautiful day, you beautiful, beautiful souls! This is Charla Anderson, host of the Charla Anderson show collector and connector of fascinating people, and everyone is fascinating, especially you.
I’ve got a little bit of reverb here. So. anyway. good, beautiful day, you beautiful, beautiful souls! This is Charla Anderson, host of the Charla Anderson show collector and connector of fascinating people, and everyone is fascinating. especially you.
Thank you for joining me today, and we’re going to talk about how you can be fearless in this. When you can get a gun put at your head, you can be fearless when you How can you be fearless? Because I had a gun at my temple, stepped towards the gun and said, You need love, and they ran, and I had no fear. We’re going to talk about that.
…BUT FIRST…
We’re going to do our little 22 second mini vacation. We’re going to just go with the flow. Learn how to breathe in calm for 7 seconds, hold for 4 seconds, breathe out gratitude for 11 seconds, and then we’re going to get into this story about fearlessness and outrageously courageous courage.
That’s who I am. So let’s breathe in our calm. First.st Here we go. Hold. release, relax. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
Let’s remember to do that a little bit more frequently than we probably do. Put those devices down and just be still and know. Take that moment to listen to that still, small voice. your truth inside of you. So yeah, it’s been 7 years since 2017, when I was interested, packed up everything I own and moved out of my beautiful tiny, small house that I love so dearly. I’ve been in for 5 years
I moved. I stored everything else upstairs in my ex-husband’s house, and where I’d raised my kids and you know, I I went on a well, it was a preplanned 6 weeks trek that I went around that was already pre-planned, and I just loaded up my car. I was living from my car, but not in my car, of course, but one of my friends, Carlene, had enrolled me into her dream of building a retreat center in East Texas, and so this began my trek, my journey. But first, before I started,
I already had these things I was going to do, for I went to my sister’s sister and brother ‘s place down in the hill country. and it was just beautiful. They’ve got a donkey and goats and chickens and pond and pool, and a nice serene place, and it was so precious because I was able to complete this little manuscript for my tiny book with a big message called Candy Bar hugs. It doesn’t take much to make a difference.
It’s got so much wisdom in there that you would be very surprised. I think that that much Punch could go in that tiny book, anyway, I completed the manuscript for that and then, while I was there,
I was also this whole 30 days. I also was considering a name for a coaching program. So I came up with it, because here I am, and I was in my mid sixties at that time. I’m leaving a whole life, you know, and changing everything. So I named my mentoring program. Charla’s outrageously courageous life mentoring system.
Do you think it was prophetic? We’ll see as we move through this story. So then, I was going through leave there after that 30 days, having completed those 2 projects, and headed to Memphis, Tennessee. for a survey conference. My company I’ve been with since 2008. I still love them dearly.
If they’ve got my zeal for life, my nutrition beverage, my energy drink, and my! Now we’ve got coffee with memory boosting coffee. I love that company, and I love them because of their humble leadership. That’s the key. That’s the only reason I ever even looked at that company, because of the humble leadership.
anyway. So here we are at the conference. I went to the conference, and my friend Sherry had driven and met me there. We were staying at an Airbnb, so Saturday night after the conference. We’re all excited, and we’re walking up the driveway of our little Airbnb home for the night. And next thing I know this Yeti, with this big dent right through here. was on the ground. and I had 2 bags, 2 canvas bags.
One had my Mac, a new macbook and makeup, and things like that. My! And I’d also had my other one had my cowboy boots and my convention clothes, my favorite things. I’m living from my car and walking up the driveway. Those things got ripped out of my hand.
Very startling, right confusing. But next thing I know, I have a gun right here at my temple. Give me your purse, give me your keys, give me your purse, give me your keys. And I had a death grip on him. I literally. At that moment I stepped towards the gun.
I stepped towards them and said, y’all need love. And they ran. How does that happen? How can you have that kind of fearlessness or outrageously courageousness in a moment, an unexpected moment like that. Well, 1st of all, I claim psalms 91. God’s umbrella of protection around me and my family, my life, my home, my car all the time I live in gratitude. I I’m constantly mantra, you know. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for whatever. What? Even if I’m not specific.
I’m in gratitude. and I also feel like I am surrounded by angels. At that moment I felt protected and got shield protection. Thank you. Thank you for the shield of protection. I do that all the time and anytime I’m driving whatever. I’m washing dishes, I mean, I just. I’m grateful and thank you for the shield of protection. so I didn’t feel fear. I was shaken, of course, but I did not feel any fear at that moment, and of course my friend Sherry, who had.
who had just handed over her backpack. She thinks I’m going to be a chalk mark. Right. Isn’t that what you would think? You know somebody? You see your friend, stepping towards the gun. Let me just say I knew that I would be okay either way. So we are. There’s a lot more to that story and the main piece of that story is.
I had no fear, because whatever you say after the words I am is who you are, and I had said, who I am is bold, faith, no fear. I had said that for years, probably since 2,008 or so, when I ran into these humble leaders. Who I am is bold faith, no fear who I am, that I am. Every word you say after I am is who you are. It’s so critical that you start realizing that every word matters. I am the breath of life. So in that since that time I have now written the second book, Second Transformation. Change your words. Change your life.
31 daily practices that went bestseller in 2,023 last year. So it’s packed full of hints and tricks on how to do what I’m talking about doing because you are who you say you are. Every word matters, claim what you want, not what you don’t want. Speak life, not death, over yourself. And I’m going to add this.
You might have gotten diagnosed with something, but you do not have to claim it. You do not have to say I have this disease. I’ve been diagnosed with this thing. I’m going to mention it very seldom. I’m going to do what I need to do, and I’m going to continue to see myself as healthy and and and healed.
Don’t claim what you don’t want. and if you do say things like that, just go, hey? Cancel cancel. I don’t want to claim things I don’t want, because every word matters. So who I am, who Charla Anderson is. I am outrageously optimistic. I am bold, faith, no fear.
I am healthy, wealthy, wise, fit, fabulous, and fun. I have a whole page of declarations, and I noticed the date was 2011, I think 2010, or 11, that I literally wrote out all these affirmations or declarations, and I had claimed them over myself over the years so many times. One of my favorite ones is, I attract successful people, willing to invest in me.
Ding, ding! It happens when you speak what you want, not what you don’t want. so you know you are who you say you are. Who do you say you are? Who? What do you say about yourself? It’s so incredibly critical to get that in your head and practice practice practice.
So if you want that declaration page, you’re well, you know, just email me, or go to my website, Charlaanderson.com. There’s an email form on there, shoot me an email, and I will send it to you like I did someone just the other day.
And oh, this is so fun! My! Soon to be 3 years old. Little Grand Blissing says, for months now I’ve said I. I taught her to say I am, and she goes happy. Well, recently I’ve added several more to her words, and I’ve been very proud and impressed that she remembered the next day, and has still remembered all of them. and we’re adding it more every time she learns. I am happy. I am healthy, I am helpful. I am smart, I am strong.
I am kind, and I believe the next one she’s learned is, I am respectful, I am respectful. I want her to understand what these words mean, and she is all of those things. She’s incredibly smart. Just ask me. I’m her, Nana, right? You get to say who you are. you are who you say you are. and every word matters.
If that’s a little hard for you, if it’s difficult, you something you can’t understand needs to be grasped or want to change your words. Change your life. you know, reach out with me. I’ve got resources, programs, books, you know, whatever. and coaching or whatever it is that you need to change your words change your life.
Every word matters. So I invite you to go to my ever involving website charlaanderson.com and grab a copy of those 2 bestselling books that I’ve held up. as well as I’ve got a chapter in the Change insights into self-empowerment. Book number 21 with Les Brown on the cover with some amazing stories and authors in this book series.
I invite you to take a look at that, grab that book, and glean this wisdom of about 20 of us. and if you’d like to be, have that credibility factor of being on a book with Les Brown, hey, shoot me a message. We’ll connect you and I have a free gift for you. This is on my website as well. charlanderson.com. It’s called 7 ways to transform your life by changing your words. It’s an amazing workbook and is done ebook.
It’s 1 of my free resources there. So please let me make a difference in your world. Also. I have a here I am Charla Anderson, the Charla Anderson show collector and connector of fascinating people, and everyone is fascinating. You can find more about the win-win women network. Find out about that.
If that’s something you’re you. I mean, it’s a global initiative to bring information to 3.9 billion women. That’s pretty broad, right? That is so anyway, Paula Fellingham is a visionary, and it and it’s coming to fruition. Now, after all of our years of work. So this plat, this win win. Women network is powerful. I would love to share more information about that.
And of course oh, and I have a forthcoming book. Guess what it’s called outrageously. Courageous, bold faith! No fear. Step towards the gun and sherry, I believe will have a piece in that. And that’s the story of this that we’re talking about here. How do you step towards the gun and have no fear? Who I am is bold, faith, no fear, and if you say it often enough. it’s who you become in the moment. At that moment I I can’t tell you how impactful that has been. and I still say it all the time.
Why not? Why not? Why don’t speak what you want? I want to be bold. I want to be faith. I want to have outrageous faith. That’s what I think. So I’m going to go ahead and tell a snippet of the rest of the story. So when that book comes out you will want to get it for sure.
So Sherry and I, you know, of course, it was very inconvenient to have to go through insurance, find her keys were stolen, her little bit of money I mean everything in that backpack she handed over and all my stuff. I mean, it’s a a lot of work to figure out all that stuff out. And fortunately I did not release my purse, my phone and my keys, it would have been a whole different story.
But anyway, so it is a big inconvenience, and we had it back. So then this conference is over. I had another conference the next week in Tennessee as well, so I drove on over to the Nashville area. and I went to another conference, and then I stayed with my sister Marcia, who lives near, not too far from Nashville. but I stayed there a couple a week or 2, because trying to deal with all the insurance and police reports and all that. So it was just really nice. So, going back, I headed from there, I’m driving back to East Texas.
To, you know, this makes a long story short, because it became a big story. The the room I was going to rent as I’m driving, I found out it is not and available anymore. She changed her mind. So what had happened? Carlene’s dream had motivated me to take new action and move. But it really wasn’t where I was supposed to be.
I went and stayed with her for a day or 2, and I was like, you know this, isn’t it? This isn’t it? I got out of my beautiful comfort zone, little house, and add some adventures. and then another transition, you know. Here I am. All my stuff is upstairs at my ex-husband’s house, where I read Ed, where I raised my kids.
So I said, Hey, how about if I move in in one of those bedrooms upstairs where you know, help, help the rent, or whatever pay. And so I came back and moved upstairs with my ex-husband, and it turned out to be a blessing for both of us in a lot of ways. And it was really, you know it’s kind of a chaotic mess amid all the boxes and all this stuff. and miraculously in my, I ended up getting my book self-published candy bar hugs doesn’t take much to make a difference. Got self-published. Interesting?
I think I was. I don’t. I couldn’t even begin to tell you how that happened during all that time. but it did. anyway. Now that I went through that, that was the end of 2017, and so now. moving the last 7 years, 7 years ago. It’s hard to even fathom that. How much has happened and continues to happen.
Everything in our world has changed, right? But anyway, I ultimately was able to buy the house back from Ed, and I’m living here as we speak, and it’s been 30 years since we originally bought this house, so grateful, grateful, grateful to all of those situations that brought me where I am, you know. So where I am is all I have, and that’s what I’m going to tell you. Now I want to remind you that you are perfect exactly who and where you are right now you are loved.
God loves you. If God is love, he can’t be, not love. I love you. you are loved, and if you are loved, if you can receive that. If you can’t receive that, if you don’t feel loved or lovable. let’s talk because you can’t do one thing to make God love you more or less, you are perfect exactly who and where you are. And, by the way. well, I’ll just add this 1st unconditional love, unconditional forgiveness, not unconditional boundaries. and the harder people are, the more they. The harder people are to be loved, the more they need it for you.
You might want to take a look. Is there a reason so many of us were hurt when we were little, you know we were all of us were hurt when we were little one way or the other. But so many of us. you know, say, I will never be hurt like that again. ever. And you start building walls, and so sometimes it takes some digging to get back to that.
You are perfect and exactly who and where you are. I want you to begin hearing that if that’s not how you feel right now. so when you embrace it. if when you embrace it, you, you will realize that right here right now is the only place you have to take the next step from. Right.
You can’t change that. You can’t change that week. That You can’t change that mistake. You can’t change anything that has happened in your past. You can’t change your grandparents meeting anything, everything is divinely brought you here listening to this message right now there is nothing else.
You can do nothing to change that. But whether you’re in the gutter, whether you’re in the castle, whether you’re in the jet where you are right. This second is all you have to take. The next step from. You know this is a constant. If you listen to me much, I’m going to continue nailing that in. And if you ever go okay, I get it. Now. You don’t have to keep saying it.
Let me know. I’d like to know, because I think it’s a reminder we all need. But you cannot change anything there. But you can take you. Everything is a choice where you all are is all you have. You might as well love it. You can change the next step to the next word.
But if you don’t like where you are. That’s your opportunity to change the next step. The next word, because it’s all choice you get to choose. You get to choose. If you speak life, not death you get to choose, and who Charlotte is, who I am. I choose gratitude. I choose everything. Give thanks. I choose unconditional love.
I just choose to be outrageously optimistic, outrageously courageous, outrageously bold. Faith, no fear. And I know some people say, Well, that’s just not reality. And I will say, well. it’s my reality because I choose it. I choose. Do do I know stuff going on out there? Absolutely, I know stuff going on. Do I like it.
No, but I believe it’s getting better, in spite of the craziness. because I don’t have to walk in the fear of it, or the confusion of it, of the divisiveness of what the media is trying to keep us divided right?
If you don’t believe that we can talk, I don’t watch TV, I don’t watch the media. I have a lot of good sources of information that do not include the propaganda machines. I know it’s controversial. Oh, well, I am outrageously courageous. I am bold, faith, no fear, and no actually I want to change that to a question.
MI. Outrageously courageous. Am I bold? Faith, no fear. Well, I get to say who I am so absolutely. I am so prophetically, you know my name means to chat in Spanish and enjoy in Greek.
I named my coaching program. Charla’s outrageously courageous life mentoring system a week before I stepped towards a gun. Huh! What do you think? Is it prophetic? You think my parents were prophetic? They didn’t know I didn’t know for most of my life I am who I say I am.
I choose to spend time with my friends at Bree talks and learning how to learn with Terry Lee Harrison, and I am so very grateful that she’s helping me learn how to actually step on stages and be a better speaker. If you want more information about that, it’s for faith-based speakers, and BRIT. A, LKS. Bree talks amazing group of folks globally.
I just want to. you know always well, as I always in all of my shows, and I’m just going to go ahead and end this today when I fly solo. I do just kind of ended it less than half hour. So I really appreciate that you would take the time to listen to me. This little 70 year old lady.
You know those guys in Memphis, thinking 2 little old ladies walking up this, up the driveway were easy targets. don’t mess with Texas is what I say. I am who, I say, I am, and I, am bold faith. I am outrageously optimistic. I would love to hear.
Who do you say you are? Who do you say you are? Check out my ever evolving website? Reach out to me. How can we? How can I support you and remember to always, always, always choose joy.
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Get In Touch
You get to say who you are. You are who you say you are and every word matters. If that’s a little hard for you, it’s difficult for you, or it’s something you can’t understand, need to grasp, or want to change your words, and change your life, reach out to me.
I’ve got resources, programs, books, and coaching or whatever it is that you need to change your words or change your life. Every word matters. I invite you to go to my ever involving website, CharlaAnderson.com, and grab a copy of those two bestselling books that I’ve held up, as well as I’ve got a chapter in the Change, Insights Into Self-Empowerment, book number 21 with Les Brown on the cover with some amazing stories and authors in this book series.
I invite you to take a look at that, grab that book, and glean this wisdom of twenty of us. If you’d like to have that credibility factor of being in a book with Les Brown, shoot me a message. We’ll connect you. I have a free gift for you. This is on my website at CharlaAnderson.com. It’s called 7 Ways To Transform Your Life By Changing Your Words. It’s an amazing workbook or eBook. It’s one of my free resources on there. Please let me make a difference in your world.
Upcoming Book
Also, here I am, Charla Anderson. The Charla Anderson Show, collector and connector of fascinating people, and everyone is fascinating. You can find out more about the Win-Win Women Network. Find out about that. It’s a global initiative to bring information to 3.9 billion women. That’s pretty broad. Paula Fellingham is a visionary and it’s coming to fruition now after all of her years of work. This Win-Win Women Network is powerful. I would love to share more information about that.
I have a forthcoming book. Guess what it’s called? Outrageously Courageous: Bold faith, No fear, Step Towards The Gun. Sherry will have a piece in that. That’s the story we’re talking about here. How do you step towards a gun and have no fear? Who I am is bold, faith, and no fear. If you say it often enough, it’s who you become in the moment. At that moment, I can’t tell you how impactful that has been and I still say it all the time. Why not? Why not speak what you want? I want to be bold. I want to be faithful. I want to have outrageous faith. That’s what I think.
After The Incident
I’m going to go ahead and tell a snippet of the rest of the story, so when that book comes out, you will want to get it for sure. For Sherry, it was very inconvenient to have to go through insurance. Her keys and a little bit of money were stolen. Everything in that backpack, she handed over. It’s a lot of work to figure out all that stuff. Fortunately, I did not release my purse, my phone, and my keys. It would have been a whole different story. It is a big inconvenience, and we had it back.
After this conference was over, I had another conference the next week in Tennessee as well. I drove on over to the Nashville area and I went to another conference. I stayed with my sister Marsha who lives not too far from Nashville. I stayed there for a week or two because trying to deal with all the insurance, police reports, and all that.
It was nice. Going back, I headed from there. I’m driving back to East Texas. To make a long story short, it became a big story. As I was driving, I found out that the room I was going to rent was not available anymore. She changed her mind. What had happened? Carlene’s dream had motivated me to take new action and move, but it wasn’t where I was supposed to be.
I went and stayed with her a day or two and I said, “This isn’t it.” I got out of my beautiful comfort zone and my little house and had some adventures, and then another transition. Here I am. All my stuff is upstairs at my ex-husband’s house where I raised my kids. I said, “How about if I move into one of those bedrooms upstairs and help with the rent or whatever.”
I came back and moved in upstairs with my ex-husband. It turned out to be a blessing for both of us in a lot of ways. It was a chaotic mess amid all the boxes and all the stuff. Miraculously, I ended up getting my book self-published. The Candy Bar Hugs: It Doesn’t Take Much to Make a Difference, got self-published. Interesting? I couldn’t even begin to tell you how that happened during all that time, but it did.
I went through that. It was the end of 2017. Seven years ago, it’s hard to even fathom how much has happened and continues to happen. Everything in our world has been changed. I ultimately was able to buy the house back from Ed and I’m living here as we speak. It’s been 30 years since we originally bought this house. I’m grateful for all of those situations that brought me where I am.
God’s Love And Being Present
Where I am is all I have and that’s what I’m going to tell you now. I want to remind you that you are perfect exactly who and where you are right now. You are loved. God loves you. If God is love, you can’t be not love. I love you. You are loved. If you are loved, if you can receive that, if you can’t receive that, if you don’t feel loved or lovable, let’s talk because you can’t do one thing to make god love you more or less. You are perfect exactly who and where you are.
I’ll add this first. Unconditional love, unconditional forgiveness, not unconditional boundaries. The harder people are to be loved, the more they need it. Is that you? You might want to take a look. Is there a reason? Many of us were hurt when we were little. All of us were hurt when we were little one way or the other, but many of us say, “I will never be hurt like that again.” You start building walls.
Sometimes it takes some digging to get back to that, “You are perfect and exactly who and where you are.” I want you to begin hearing that if that’s not how you feel right now. When you embrace it, you will realize that right here, right now is the only place you have to take the next step. You can’t change that. You can’t change that week. You can’t change that mistake. You can’t change anything that has happened in your past. You can’t change your grandparents’ meeting or anything.
Everything has divinely brought you here for this message right now. There is nothing else you can do. Nothing to change that. Whether you’re in the gutter, whether you’re in the castle, whether you’re in the jet, where you are right this second is all you have to take the next step from.
If you listen to me much, I’m going to continue nailing that in. If you ever say, “I get it now. You don’t have to keep saying it,” let me know. I’d like to know because I think it’s a reminder we all need, but you cannot change anything there. Everything is a choice. Where you all are is all you have. You might as well love it. You can change the next step, the next word.
If you don’t like where you are, that’s your opportunity to change the next step, the next word because it’s all a choice. You get to choose if you speak life, not death. You get to choose who Charla is, and who I am. I choose gratitude. I choose in everything, to give thanks. I choose unconditional love. I choose to be outrageously optimistic, outrageously courageous, and outrageously bold, faith, and no fear.
I know some people say, “That’s not the reality.” I will say it’s my reality because I chose it. Do I know stuff is going on out there? I know stuff is going on. Do I like it? No, but I believe that it’s getting better despite the craziness. I don’t have to walk in the fear of it, the confusion of it, or the divisiveness of what the media is trying to keep us divided. If you don’t believe that, we can talk.
I don’t watch TV. I don’t watch the media. I have a lot of good sources of information that do not include propaganda machines. I know it’s controversial. I am outrageously courageous. I am bold faith, no fear. I want to change that to a question. Am I outrageously courageous? Am I both faith and no fear? I like you to say, “Who I am is absolutely what I am.”
Prophetically, my name means to chat in Spanish and joy in Greek. I named my coaching program, Charla’s Outrageously Courageous Life Mentoring System a week before I stepped towards a gun. What do you think? Is it prophetic? Do you think my parents were prophetic? They didn’t know. I didn’t know for most of my life.
I am who I say I am. I choose to spend time with my friends at Bri Talks and learn how to learn with Terri Lee Harrison and I am very grateful that she’s helping me learn how to step on stage and be a better speaker. If you want more information about that, it’s for faith-based speakers, Bri Talks. Amazing group of folks globally.
Episode Wrap-up
As I always do in all of my shows, I’m going to go ahead and end this. When I fly solo, I end it in less than half an hour. I appreciate that you would take the time to listen to this little 70-year-old lady. Those guys in Memphis think two little old ladies walking up the driveway were easy targets. Don’t mess with Texans is what I say. I am who I say I am. I am bold faith. I am outrageously optimistic. I would love to hear who you say you are. Who do you say you are? Check out my ever-evolving website. Reach out to me. How can I support you? Remember to always choose joy.
Important Links
- Candy Bar Hugs~It Doesn’t Take Much to Make a Difference
- Split-Second Transformation~Change Your Words, Change Your Life: 31 Daily Practices
- The Change: Insights Into Self Empowerment
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I’m Charla Anderson, host of The Charla Anderson Show, Collector & Connector of Fascinating People (and EVERYONE is Fascinating!) on live TV, streaming, and podcasts. As a Ziglar Legacy Certified Trainer, a retired award-winning flight attendant, Olympic Torchbearer, a personal development junkie, Inspired Speaker, a Published Author, and Your Courageous Coach, I want to share my passion for living life full-out, saying YES to intriguing opportunities, and encouraging YOU to do the same. Let’s jump on a discovery call and get to know each other. Find all things Charla at CharlaAnderson.com/links.
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