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Introduction
Good, beautiful day, beautiful, beautiful souls! This is Charla Anderson, host of the Charla Anderson Show~Collector & Connector of Fascinating People (& EVERYONE is Fascinating!), especially you. Incredibly excited to debut Season 3, and I’ve got so much gratitude for my followers and my listeners and my guests, both past and present. Our past and future guests as well as the subscribers on Youtube. And you know the Charla Anderson show for creating…
I’m changing this thing from ‘Chaos to Clarity’. We’re working towards clarity these days and transforming, offering hope. giving overcoming stories. Keep an eye out for season 3 new guests coming up. and I cannot wait to join you. …BUT FIRST…
We’re going to do my little breathing exercise. The 22 second mini vacation. We’re going to take a 7 seconds of breathing calm. We’re going to hold for 4 seconds and then going to relax and release gratitude for 11 seconds. So join me today, as we have a few seconds of clarity here, be still in there, breathe in some calm. Here we go.Hold, relax, release. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
You know, tech gets kind of crazy some days. And so this is us take took a few extra minutes this morning, and I’m just excited to someone would take the time to listen to what I have to say, what I you know I can talk, I talk. My name means “to chat.”
But if you don’t listen, if nobody listens, then what’s the point? Right? So I’m so incredibly grateful. This is my 101st show, and I’m kind of like overwhelmed with that. That’s beautiful to have just done this consistently, for now going into my 3rd year, I am. I’m so surprised, and I’m so grateful that someone is paying attention. I really request that you go to youtube.com at Charla Anderson at the Charla Anderson show and subscribe to my Youtube channel.
Because we’re working towards building that up building up the podcasting. And if you haven’t subscribed to the Youtube channel, I so encourage you to do that. If you’re listening on any of the streaming services, I encourage you to come over to winwinwomen TV and join my my show, live every Wednesday at 1 o’clock pm CT, and then we can have questions and answers. And a time with our guests, and who knows? Just have some fun build community. I’m really looking forward to building some community in season 3.
You may or may not know that I have a coaching program, and I’m calling it courageous clarity, courageous clarity and coaching program. And I really really would love to hear from you. If you’d like to have a clarity call around that, and if it would be something you would be open to discussing and finding out if we’re a good fit.
So you know, there’s so much going on in our world right now, and my I, years and years ago, when I started my very first radio show, it was like I wanted to offer hope and through these unsteady times, right? So hope and encouragement, and offer you unconditional loving through these unsteady times, as we are all focusing on those things outside of us that we don’t have control of. And one of the most important things that I like to share is that those things outside of us do not have to affect our peace.
I really want you to hear that your piece is. It can be there. this complete peace, this be still and know. Listen to yourself. You can walk in peace.
Despite any circumstances you can have joy in any circumstances, you can be in the gutter or you can be in the castle in either place you can have peace, and you can have joy. It doesn’t matter what the chaos is going on outside of your life. There’s ways of doing that, and I feel like I tend to do it quite well. I very seldom get upset because upset draws more upset. I’m not then able to really deal with the situation, and at hand.
The present I want. I live in the present moment. For the most part we’ve always heard that. you know. Be in the present. Be now here and now. but it’s not so easy to do without practice. It’s like a muscle you have to practice. And today my show is debuting Season 3. As to my solo, my 4th show is always the of the month is always so my solo show. And sometimes I have a theme. Sometimes I just talk, sometimes I just share my heart.
And that’s what I’m doing today is just sharing my heart, and some of the things that I’m up to in this and wanting to hear what you guys are up to, you know. What are you up to. What are you listening to? What are you watching? What are you hearing? And you know I have this. You know who I am is bold faith, no fear who I am.
It’s who I say I am, and I say I’m bold, faith, no fear. And one of the most important things to do to get out of any of that fear mode, because if God is love, he can’t be, not love. And you’ve listened to me at all. You know I’ve said this many, many times, but there’s a pendulum of fear. The opposite of love is fear. The pendulum swings one step to the side of fear; it’s not of God. If God is love, he can’t be, not love. And so, when you continue in that bold faith that everything is always working out for me that I’m I’m I choose, I choose. I choose in this step, and I choose in this step, and I choose in this step to be content, even if I’m having to deal with things I don’t like.
I think we know, we all have those. There’s no possibility of getting through this life without some conflict or disgruntledness, or people that you know are hard to love. The harder people are to love, the more they need it. Oh, well, some tech things changed. Yay, anyway, it looks clearer for me. So I want you to just understand that there’s so many opportunities. There’s unlimited possibilities. And I did. One of my shows about questions are the answer. And when you can ask really excellent questions, your brain is always always trying to answer questions. So if you upgrade your questions. you upgrade your life because your brain wants to answer. you know. What if I say, how can
I find unlimited possibilities, or how can I be aware of even more unlimited opportunities out there? Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for bringing them to me. Gratitude to me. Gratitude is also one of the biggest. most important I think it is the top. If you don’t have gratitude, if you don’t walk in gratitude. If you don’t feel gratitude, it’s the secret of stepping out of the depression. It’s the secret of stepping into service. Gratitude, everything is always working out for me, and I’m so grateful I woke up in the night. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. And sometimes I’m not even knowing what I’m thankful for in the time. But I just driving. I’m just thankful. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for the clouds. Thank you, for you know even the traffic I’m like. Your timing is perfect. Mine’s not so much.
Thank you for guiding me and giving me the perfect timing and redeeming my time, and I guarantee you there’s forces outside of us. I believe that there, you know we have. We’re all interconnected, and somehow or another when we let that upset go and realize that here we are is all we have. I don’t have anywhere else to be. I love Jason Mraz, has a song called “Be where your feet are,” where else be where your seat is right, where else you have to be other than where you are, and a lot of these are things I’ve said over and over and over over the years, and if you’re like me, I could hear it a thousand times, and it not really quite sink in, or I need the reminder at that perfect time. So when you, where you are is all you have. where you are is all you have. You might as well love it. because that’s the only place you have to take the next step from right. There’s not much else that you can do.
You don’t have anywhere else to fix the problem, to change it, to work through it, to love through it. You don’t have anywhere else to be but where you are right now, and that’s we’ve said it multiple times, but since the beginning of time let there be light to. We’re in this infinite timeline of eternity in this tiny speck of the moment. And then we’re walking around upset all the time. It doesn’t make sense, does it? Does it make sense to you? Doesn’t make sense to me to try to change where I am? I can’t change it. I can’t go back to the last step. I can’t. I got a love where I am right now, because this is the only place to work from. It’s like, you know, we’re a lot of us are wishing we were somewhere else all the time. What if we just loved right where we are.
Even in dark circumstances, so that we can deal with them better. I know I’m dragging on or repeating a lot of this, but it’s something that I don’t think very many people that I’m aware of. Just live in this peace that passes understanding. In this moment I believe those are Biblical terms, but the peace that passes understanding.
We want that, don’t we? You want that, don’t you? I know you do. And I’m with this courageous clarity coaching. I’m looking forward to serving you, serving those that choose to, you know. Join me on this journey, and have some begin getting more clarity on their life, and and I say, courage, you know. I used to call it my outrageously courageous life mentoring system.
You know, but it’s, you know clarity is for all of us right? So it’s a i feel like getting clarity on who you are, how you live to help you understand that bold faith, no fear is a possibility to live a life and then speak what you want, not what you don’t want. And when I changing, I want to change that, I want to change it. Speak your desires, because desire is of the Father. It you know. God says He wants to give you the desires of your heart.
We want that we want to have the desires of our heart. and the word want means extreme lack. So I’m working to minimize using the word want. I always have said for years. Speak what you want, not what you don’t want, but really it’s speak what you desire of the father, what the gifts speak, what you desire, not what you don’t, and you begin attracting. There is a law of attraction, just like the law of gravity is a real law. and most of us, you know we speak things that we want, and then we kind of negate them.
Isn’t that interesting? We just kind of negate them by saying things, but you know I don’t have enough money. I can’t afford it, or you know we don’t have to know the how. If we speak our desires and see them. This is probably the key that I don’t think a lot of us understand is that. See what you desire.
Act as if it’s already on its way. and it will come to you. It’s a law, and then but your subconscious is always hearing what you’re saying, and so every word matters, every word matters. You know my split second transformation. Change your words, change your life. 31 daily practices great book. I suggest you go over to Amazon and grab that thing. They’re on my website, a link to the To Amazon for both split second transformations. Change your words, things, change your life. 31 daily practices. And
What is it called here? My Candy Bar Hugs, my 1st little book. It doesn’t take much to make a difference. Oh, those tech problems. Got my brain going crazy anyway?
Go go find those books. They are both extremely small and very powerful. Have a whole lot of heart in them, and encouragement. And every word matters. So when you speak what you want, not what you don’t want, speak your desires, and don’t negate them by saying things that don’t, that are even trying to not think things that negate your thoughts.
We want to discuss. We want to talk about the things that are we want. We want to see them. We want to feel them. We want to feel play. If you’re in an illness or something, and you want to get well so you can play with those grandkids. You see yourself playing with those grandkids. You feel what it feels like to be with those children and grandchildren, and and and don’t claim things you don’t want. You don’t claim that disease. You said you have. You deal with it.
You deal with it, but you don’t have to say I have it. These are words. I’m a broken record on all these things that because I believe we need to know. We need to understand that we are words change everything.
I want to shift just a second. You know some of the things that I love. I have, I used to call it, and be on my website upcoming the you know, Charles Faves, or these are a few of my favorite things, but my beloved Zervita Company has now been purchased and bought by a company called Zinzino, and this is these products. Over here I have lived with. I’ve been 1617 years with Zervita, which has the zeal wellness.
Now we’re shifting to Zenzino, which will still have the amazing zeal, wellness and the Omega oils. I’m telling you this is Zenzino’s goal. Been around 20 years, but their goal is to be the number one preventative health company in the world, and they’re the integrity behind them, and they’re the character, the integrity and character and humble leadership.
My highest value in business, the, you know, integrity and humble leadership being next man up, these companies have merged and are now building a global brand that is going to change everything.
So zenzino.com, the link will be in the show notes, because currently my, it’s a long number that I know nobody could remember. But I want you to go to that site and start looking at those things because this fish they have a test. Don’t guess you take a blood test and get the starting point, and then where you are in 3 every 4 months, I think they send you a new test. If you continue on the oils each month. and you will be astounded at how much more balanced your body is with the oils. Your body doesn’t. Your body does not produce the Omegas. They’re required. Omega, 6, omega. 3. You need a 3 to one ratio. and it’s very hard to get. So the test is amazing to find out where you are. I’ve seen. I’ve heard of people. Their kids are even at 25 to one. That one man was at 53 to one, or diets do not allowed in our country, at least in America, you know, we just don’t have a lot of good source food. We’re so used to fast food and getting quick fixes, and not having whole nutritious food.
I was very proud to say my 1st test was 6 to one. I think I was, you know, for my age I’ve got mine was better than anybody else I’ve heard of, so I haven’t changed. Haven’t taken the second test yet, so that’ll be fun to see if it’s improved from that.
But test, don’t guess. Find this company, zenzino.com, and please you know it’s an affiliate company, and I would love love, love if you would make sure to use my link. Once you listen to this and find the link in the in the show notes. And you know, have I invited you to subscribe to Youtube? Did I talk? Did I start this with this today? I can’t even remember it was a little silly start there.
But please subscribe to Charla Anderson show on Youtube. I know I did. Now. I’m remembering man little scattered today, which is, which is sad because I’m so. I was so excited about having seen the debut of Season 3, and talking about talking, just talking to you about the opportunities, the unlimited opportunities.
And so maybe you want to be a show host winwinwomen TV. It’s only female show hosts on, on there. But we are. It’s expanding and growing. And her goal is to have 3.9 billion women. 3.9 billion women listening on winwinwomentv globally worldwide in their language, getting all the support and information from all the experts. All the show hosts are, you know, all different kinds of stories and experts that have advice and communities. And it’s a connecting service. And so it’s building and growing.
And it’s very reasonable if anyone would like to be a show host. Please reach out to me. I would love to have you join me. It’s a fun, and fairly simple, fairly, not easy, necessarily, but fairly simple. Process to become a a show host. Why not? Why not you? Why not you?
We have I you know I was thinking about. You know I mentioned my books. I’ve got the change book as well. The change, you know I’m looking. I’m just kind of talking about things that I’m kind of interested in today. The Change Book Series with Les Brown, Jim Lutz, Jim Britt, Les Brown, and 20 other authors. And we’re on Book number 23. We’re looking for people that would love to have a chapter. It’s a credibility piece.
If you’ve never written a book, or if you have written a book, there are some incredible leaders. And they came to me and they said, we want you to be, have a chapter in this book, and I was like me. Why, me, who am I? And they said, Why not you?
I was like, Oh you know. Well, okay, let me take a look at it. And it’s an amazing group, because there’s a mastermind. We have monthly mastermind and meet so many amazing authors in this series, as well as independent coaching, and some of the most brilliant time I’ve spent ever.
So the debut of the season 03 Charla Anderson, show collector and connector of fascinating people. And everyone is fascinating. Talked about Youtube channel. Please subscribe, listen to the podcast and share it. Would you mind sharing this a little bit with your friends. I don’t. I don’t ask very much, but I am asking today for you to share the show, share the Youtube channel.
Let’s get some subscribers up. What about sponsors? I wouldn’t even mind having some sponsors, you know. I love talking about things that I love, and I would never, ever, ever sponsor something that I don’t. So I promise you, if I talk about it, it’s been tried, trued, and tested for sure.
So everything is always working out for me everything. And I love saying that because even when it doesn’t feel like it is what? So what if we deal with it? What’s so? What if we always were just dealing with what’s so, and what? So is today in my chair in the Charla Anderson show?
I want you to understand that no matter where you are, no matter what you’re doing, that you are loved by God, there’s nothing you can do to be loved more or less.
My God pardon me, and the harder people are to love, the more they need it. I understand that that doesn’t. Unconditional love, unconditional forgiveness, but not unconditional boundaries. I get that, you know, but walking through this life.
Letting your light shine when I leave my goal is to let the light shine. Let people feel good in my presence, and it’s it’s it’s just that’s who I am, and maybe I know I hear a lot that I’m not realistic, but it’s my reality works for me. I’m going to do a it’s not an early close, because I usually only do about half hour when I’m doing my own show solo. But I’m going to close out today a little bit early, and I want to just encourage you to just love yourself enough to love others.
And, by the way, I think a lot of us are walking around with you know these God shaped holes in our heart. Perhaps. My biggest encouragement is to help you love yourself enough to receive God’s love, my love. the love for others, so that you can be a light in this world, too. And I’m sure most of you are those listening to me, probably.
Usually. Yeah, I do attract that type of people, and it makes my life simpler. So I’m gonna just end the show today a little bit off kilter. I don’t like to do a lot of apologies, but it has been a little bit odd with the tech things I had in the beginning, so the show must go on, and it also must. And so season 3. Debut show is in the can. And just remember, remember, remember to
always, always, always, always, always choose joy.
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